Doms Guide To Bdsm

Much of what we’ve “heard” about BDSM and the lifestyle is wrong. Our opinions on this lifestyle and art form are oftentimes shaped by other people who have heard something about it and perhaps embellished it to the point of perpetuating myths. The truth is that BDSM is not degrading towards women, and it’s also a concept that you will find is not “scary.” And even the “pain” that is spoken of is not the type of pain people think it is. This book is written for Doms/Masters in training. It is written for you, the average guy or gal, who doesn’t already have a closet full of leather and whips, and who really has little idea about what BDSM is besides what they’ve heard about it. What you are going to find out, is that the Dom/Master actually has the more complicated role. The master has the task of giving pleasure and discipline to the slave or sub. A great deal of what you do as a Dom will be for the benefit of a sub. You must derive pleasure from giving, have a great desire to please a partner, and not simply take what you want. Still interested? Good. Now that we know you’re a REAL master in training, one that will respect the rules, respect the slave you have power over, and follow protocol, you can begin your Dom training. Only then can you truly earn the utmost respect and admiration from your sub. In Volume 1 of this series we are going to discuss: - How to think and act like a Dom - What the slave expects from you - What not to do and what instincts you do NOT want to follow - Your motivation and your goals - How to find out a sub’s taboo - How to negotiate, find agreement and ensure that game play is always safe - How to make a slave yearn for you and desire to be controlled by you - And much more...

A Dom/sub relationship doesn’t just happen. It is a finely crafted and designed system of expectations and joys. In order for you and your submissive lady to “fit” one another and create a lasting, happy union there must be a period of training. It does not matter if your sub has thirty years of experience in submission or just read 50 Shades of Grey and decided to try it herself. She will need to be trained for the best relationship to emerge. "Dom's Guide to Submissive Training" was specifically written for doms/masters. It is designed to provide you with a step-by-step blueprint on how to train your new sub. It goes from preparation all the way down to the closing ceremony including advanced techniques & tips. Training can be one of the most exciting, challenging and fun parts of the relationship. A well-trained sub will not only serve you in the capacity you deserve, but will have built up the two most important elements in any BDSM relationship – trust and consistency. Following the instructions in this guide will allow you to show yourself as a worthy master, who is in control, experienced and able to guide you both to the best possible life.

"'Dom's guide to BDSM" was specifically written for Doms/Masters. In Volume 2 of this series, we're going to focus on how to better communicate with a sub, and how to go back and forth with role playing. We're going to teach you how to express yourself, how to read your sub and look for cues, and how to go about getting a real life BDSM relationship started. We're also going to discuss how to train your sub accordingly and with a purpose. This is important and is an often-neglected part of the BDSM community. The highly sensationalized, "purely sexual" relationships you read about or see depicted in TV or movies is not the only type of relationship forged. Some relationships really are all about personal missions, self-improvement and getting in touch with suppressed inner feelings. We will cover this as well as the most important part of BDSM dominance--having a plan. You will learn how to be an excellent Dom and it all starts with a few simple steps"--Back cover.

What does it really mean to be a submissive, or sub? Much of what we see in BDSM practice, especially in the mainstream, focuses on how to become dominant and act like the ideal Dom or Master, or "Top." However, a lot of newcomers are confused as to how this works. They vaguely understand that the submissive or sub or slave is supposed to obey. But they don’t understand the emotional dynamics, or how to act like the ideal sub, or even how to enjoy the experience. That’s what this book is going to teach you: How to be a better sub, and have a happy & healthy BDSM lifestyle. Here are just some of the things you will discover in volume 1 of "Submissive's Guide To BDSM": - Why you want to experience punishment... - The science of pain & pleasure... - Type of Doms to beware of... - How to pick the right Dom just for you... - How to protect yourself from wannabe Doms and predators... - The right way to explore taboo fantasies in BDSM... - Type of limits and when & how to use them... - How to communicate with your Dom... - Common mistakes new subs make... - How to "train" your Master... - How to "fire" your Dom if it's not working out... - And much more...

"Dom's Guide to BDSM" was specifically written for Doms/Masters. In Volume 2 of this series, we’re going to focus on how to better communicate with a sub, and how to go back and forth with role playing. We’re going to teach you how to express yourself, how to read your sub and look for cues, and how to go about getting a real life BDSM relationship started. We’re also going to discuss how to train your sub accordingly and with a purpose. This is important and is an often-neglected part of the BDSM community. The highly sensationalized, “purely sexual” relationships you read about or see depicted in TV or movies is not the only type of relationship forged. Some relationships really are all about personal missions, self-improvement and getting in touch with suppressed inner feelings. We will cover this as well as the most important part of BDSM dominance—having a plan. You will learn how to be an excellent Dom and it all starts with a few simple steps. Note: If you have not read Volume 1 in this series (Dom's Guide To BDSM Vol. 1: 49 Must-Know Tips On How To Be The Perfect Dom/Master Your submissive Will Truly Respect & Admire), it is highly recommended that you do so before taking on this book.

You may think that every Master has a huge house filled with either gothic décor or fluffy white couches, and a ridiculously full selection of paddles, straps, whips, crops, restraints, sex toys, and bondage gear. Fortunately, you don’t have to pay a hundred dollars for a specialty flogger or purchase a wedge from Extreme Restraints for three hundred bucks in order to be a great Dom and provide your sub with hours of bondage, spanking and fun. Most of the things you need to give your submissive the spanking of a lifetime, a punishment to fit the crime, or just an incredible bondage experience can be found right in your own home. Your sub will not only enjoy the variety of experiences in her sessions but also appreciate your creativity. "Dom's Guide to Submissive Training Vol. 3" gives you 31 common objects you already own or can purchase for minimal cost and keep right out in the open that will enhance your BDSM relationship and provide you and your sub hours of pleasure. Aside from the cost savings, there is another benefit to using everyday objects in your BDSM training and session fun – discretion. Not every person can be seen walking down the street or through an airport with a leather whip in his hand or a wooden paddle in his bag. Many Doms must conceal their activities from employers, social circles, or vanilla spouses. Common objects make it easier to engage in important rituals without detection.

Being a sub means this BDSM game is really all about your pleasure. The Dom’s goal is to provide you with the pleasure you crave and send you to a higher level of eroticism through very intensive sessions of bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism. During volume 1 we talked about trust; finding a Dom you can trust and one that meets your high standards. In this book, we are going to explain how you as a sub can develop a criteria for your Dom and ensure that each session is going to be enjoyable. Here are just some of the things you will discover in volume 2 of "Submissive's Guide To BDSM": - What is your "Ideal Scene"... - How and what you should tell your Dom, when he creates the scene... - How to create a mutually beneficial relationship with your Dom... - Etiquette on being a sub for the first time... - How to enjoy the pain as a sub... - How to work with multiple Doms... - How to reach a whole zenith of pleasure... - How to make your vanilla spouse enjoy BDSM with you... - And much more...

If you have just discovered the world of BDSM and kink and want to learn how to be the perfect Dom, then this guide is for you. But why would anyone need a book to know how to be a Dom? Well, there are many reasons. If you are going to be a good Dom and not just any Dom, you need to learn how to dominate your sub mentally, physically, and sexually. Sadly, many Doms only know about physical domination, which they don't even do well. You have likely seen porn clips where a lady is bound and the male teases, spanks, and forces himself on her. You probably seemed to like it and thought that was what being a Dom was all about. The truth is - if all you do is to tie someone to your bed and have sex with them, you cannot call yourself a Dom. As said earlier, there is more that goes into Domming than that. Luckily, this guide will take you by the hand and introduce you to all the intricacies that are involved in being a perfect Dom. You will learn how to dominate her physically, sexually, and psychologically. This is the knowledge that you won't find elsewhere. That said, let's get started...

There are two foundational pillars of a BDSM relationship between a Dom and a sub: consent and trust. Everything else in the relationship - the fun, the love, the discipline, the eroticism, the tears and the journey - are all built on those standards. Both consent and trust require honest communication in order to thrive. The vast majority of that communication begins long before the training begins. In "Dom's Guide to Submissive Training Vol. 2," I listed 25 things you must know about your new sub if you want to create a satisfying relationship with a devoted submissive. It's not enough to just ask "What do you like?" or "Would you like to be my sub?" You need to know things about your sub that are deeper, more practical and helpful. Without the knowledge of these 25 things, you may be able to create momentarily excitement but it will surly turn into a frustrating short-term relationship headed for drama, disaster and end. Following this guide allows your sub to communicate freely and provides a mechanism for her to reveal her true self - even if she doesn't have the words to do so. There are a million things subs want their Doms to know. These questions will help your sub tell you.

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