When Love Is A Lie

When our partner is a narcissist, only those who've actually experienced the madness will ever understand what we're going through. This is a straight-up, tell-all book about narcissism in relationships that focuses solely on the personal experience. A narrative that holds nothing back, Zari Ballard's story will educate, enlighten, and empower you to evaluate (and fully understand) the mind-boggling dysfunction in your own relationship. Compare her story to your own and watch what happens. As it has for thousands of abuse victims worldwide, it is going to resonate with you in ways that no other book about narcissism ever has.

January Sanders grew up believing karma was more reliable than an imaginary higher power, but after suffering her worst heartbreak in 29 years, she's open to just about anything, including taking a temporary position at her aunt's church. Keeping her lack of faith a secret, January is determined to use her photographic memory to help Grace Community's overworked staff, all while scraping herself off rock bottom. What she doesn't count on is meeting the church's handsome and charming guitarist, who not only is a strong believer, but has also dedicated his life to Christian music. It's a match set for disaster, and yet January has no ability to stay away, even if it means pretending to have faith in a God she doesn't believe in. Only this time, keeping secrets isn't as easy as she thought it would be. Especially when she's constantly running into her aunt's landscape architect, who seems to know everything about her past and present sins and makes no apologies about pushing her to deal with feelings she'd rather keep buried. Torn between two worlds incapable of coexisting, can January find the healing that's eluded her or will her resistance to the truth ruin any chance of happiness?

My name is Amber Reynolds. There are three things you should know about me: 1. I’m in a coma. 2. My husband doesn’t love me anymore. 3. Sometimes I lie. Amber wakes up in a hospital. She can’t move. She can’t speak. She can’t open her eyes. She can hear everyone around her, but they have no idea. Amber doesn’t remember what happened, but she has a suspicion her husband had something to do with it. Alternating between her paralyzed present, the week before her accident, and a series of childhood diaries from twenty years ago, this brilliant psychological thriller asks: Is something really a lie if you believe it's the truth?

Have you ever been lied to by a lover? In this straightforward and supportive book, therapist Susan Forward profiles the wide variety of liars, shows you how to deal with the lies -- from the benign to the lethal -- that these men spin, and gives practical strategies to stop them before they ruin your relationship and, ultimately, your life. Once you find out the truth about your lover and his lies, what do you do? Forward offers practical, proven, step-by-step methods for healing the wounds caused by his deception and betrayal. She provides all the communication and behavioral techniques you need to deal with a lover's lies, telling you exactly what to say, when and how to respond to his reactions, and how to present your requirements for staying in the relationship. With understanding and compassion, she helps you decide whether your relationship can be saved and shows you how to move beyond doubt and regret if you feel that it can't. But whether you stay or go, you can learn to love and trust again.

Ryan and Selena Frederick were newlyweds when they landed in Switzerland to pursue Selena's dream of training horses. Neither of them knew at the time that Ryan was living out a death sentence brought on by a worsening genetic heart defect. Soon it became clear he needed major surgery that could either save his life--or result in his death on the operating table. The young couple prepared for the worst. When Ryan survived, they both realized that they still had a future together. But the near loss changed the way they saw all that would lie ahead. They would live and love fiercely, fighting for each other and for a Christ-centered marriage, every step of the way. Fierce Marriage is their story, but more than that, it is a call for married couples to put God first in their relationship, to measure everything they do and say to each other against what Christ did for them, and to see marriage not just as a relationship they should try to keep healthy but also as one worth fighting for in every situation. With the gospel as their foundation, Ryan and Selena offer hope and practical help for common struggles in marriage, including communication problems, sexual frustration, financial stress, family tension, screen-time disconnection, and unrealistic expectations.

Do you ever wish you could rewrite your life? Our lives are defined by the stories we tell ourselves, but those stories aren't always true. Narratives that are based on outdated or irrelevant information can run (or ruin) our lives for years, even if those stories are wildly different from the objective reality that formed them. In her sixth book, Tell Yourself a Better Lie, best-selling author Marisa Peer shares for the first time how Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT) creates stunning in-the-room turnarounds for issues as varied as suicidal depression, eating disorders, weight loss, and life-limiting phobias and addictions. Through ten diverse case studies, Marisa explains how our unmet needs as children can morph into fixed stories we tell ourselves in adulthood-and, more importantly, how we all have the power to change them. If you've been longing for a happier, more fulfilled life, pick up Tell Yourself a Better Lie and take control of your own story today.

Lady Isabeau Dawney must redeem her family's good name by retrieving her dowry from a vengeful knight her family dishonored. But, a witch's prophecy hangs over her head and her ruthless cousin is hot on her heels. Robbed and falsely accused, Alexander Fortin thirsts for revenge. But when he steals Isabeau's dowry, he doesn't count on her coming after it, or the fierce attraction between them that flares to an all-consuming passion, which will test his loyalties and change his life forever.

Abuse, be of any kind, is ruinous. Physical abuse is usually evident with all the bruises and scars but emotional abuse goes glossed over for years. It's often confused with simple blames or some dry sarcasm and could be more destructive and insidious because the abuser is often eluding and always making the victim presume that he/she is at fault and unless one has outlived an emotional abuse, it’s quite abstruse for one to believe what it means to fight those daily battles with someone who’s nothing more than a Black Hole, someone you just can’t feel connected with no matter how hard you try. The damages stay forever. This book is a collection of poems that talks about not just some vague and restless disquiets but also about the wounds of the heart and scars of the mind, poems that talk about the constant mental struggles and a desperate but doubtful fight for daily survival, poems about not just what is lost but also about the priceless lessons learned, poems about believing in oneself and making an effort to live the life of one’s dreams.

In his new book on truth and lies in relationships, Jean Richard Franck, MA, shows readers how small lies can lead to big consequences. Franck's realism sets his work apart from other relationship books. He acknowledges that in a perfect world, no one would lie about anything. He also acknowledges that we don't live in a perfect world, and people are going to lie. Instead of condemning anyone for doing so, he teaches readers how to separate the harmless lies from the toxic ones. He helps readers identify whether their partner lies and whether lies should be a deal breaker in a relationship. Love in the Midst of Lie and Truth will teach readers how to better emotionally read situations and relationships. It is only with a thorough understanding of the psychology behind social situations that they can navigate through them without hurting feelings or ruffling feathers. Franck ends the book with two hypothetical situations: a painful love and a painless love. He shows the emotional complexity of relationships and how to recognize if you and your partner are "painful or painless" in your affection and respect for each other.

Foreword by Actress Kim Coles. The U.S. boasts the highest divorce rate of any country in the world and some of the highest relationship dissatisfaction rates. Yet, despite the endless amounts of advice and experts available to us, we continue to experience increasing levels of frustration, conflict, emotional breakdown, and failure in our relationships. What are we missing? What continues to elude us? What is inherently wrong with our understanding of what makes love relationships work? Debrena Jackson Gandy, two-time national best-selling author and founder of The Love Academy addresses these questions and the root causes of this massive breakdown in relationships in our country. Most of the advice and models given to American women only address the symptoms of this epidemic, usually applying simplified how-to techniques that tend to lead to more confusion than resolution. These are band-aids, and ineffective ones at that. The Love Lies delves deeper to unearth ten toxic beliefs that have been instilled in women since pre-school, influencing us through a wide range of ages and trapping us all in a web of illusions. These powerful "Love Lies" manipulate perceptions, create delusions and perpetuate behaviors that unknowingly sabotage our relationships. The Love Lies sets women free from chronic cycles of dissatisfaction and disappointment and offers a proven process to dismantle the lies, heal the mind and heart, and transform the American relationship paradigm forever.