This Is Why I Wont Marry You

A collection of essays extended from The New York Times' most-read article of 2016. Anyone we might marry could, of course, be a little bit wrong for us. We don’t expect bliss every day. The fault isn’t entirely our own; it has to do with the devilish truth that anyone we’re liable to meet is going to be rather wrong, in some fascinating way or another, because this is simply what all humans happen to be – including, sadly, ourselves. This collection of essays proposes that we don’t need perfection to be happy. So long as we enter our relationships in the right spirit, we have every chance of coping well enough with, and even delighting in, the inevitable and distinctive wrongness that lies in ourselves and our beloveds.

A groundbreaking book--based on years of the same thorough research that made the "Dress For Success" books national bestsellers--about how women can statistically improve their chances of getting married.

An eye-opening, funny, painful, and always truthful in-depth examination of modern relationships, and a wake-up call for single women about getting real about Mr. Right, from the New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone. You have a fulfilling job, great friends, and the perfect apartment. So what if you haven’t found “The One” just yet. He’ll come along someday, right? But what if he doesn’t? Or what if Mr. Right had been, well, Mr. Right in Front of You—but you passed him by? Nearing forty and still single, journalist Lori Gottlieb started to wonder: What makes for lasting romantic fulfillment, and are we looking for those qualities when we’re dating? Are we too picky about trivial things that don’t matter, and not picky enough about the often overlooked things that do? In Marry Him, Gottlieb explores an all-too-common dilemma—how to reconcile the desire for a happy marriage with a list of must-haves and deal-breakers so long and complicated that many great guys get misguidedly eliminated. On a quest to find the answer, Gottlieb sets out on her own journey in search of love, discovering wisdom and surprising insights from sociologists and neurobiologists, marital researchers and behavioral economists—as well as single and married men and women of all generations.

Will I Ever Find My Soul Mate? Whether you are recently separated, divorced, or you have been in the singles scene for longer than you want, this insightful guide will help you navigate the dating maze and find that special person you've been waiting for. By discussing the differences between men and women, Mars and Venus on a Date provides singles with: A thorough understanding of the five stages of dating -- attraction, uncertainty, exclusivity, intimacy, and engagement How to know what kind of person is right for you Answers to burning questions such as why don't men call, or why do some women stay single? The best places to meet your soul mate And advice on creating a loving and mutually fulfilling relationship Filled with practical guidelines, inventive techniques, and witty insight, Mars and Venus on a Date will help single men and women explore the world of dating, understand how to make good choices, and discover the secret to finding a soul mate.

Bestselling author Gary Thomas transforms the way you look at romantic relationships. His unique perspective on dating will prepare you for a satisfying, spiritually enriching marriage. In the revised edition of his hit book The Sacred Search, Gary Thomas helps single people of all ages make wise marital choices by rethinking what basis those choices should be made on. You will be encouraged to think beyond finding your “soul mate” and instead adopt a more biblical search for a “sole mate”—someone who will walk with you on your spiritual journey. Thomas asks, What if we focused on why we should get married more than on who to marry? What if being “in love” isn’t a good enough reason to get married? And most of all, what if God designed marriage to make us holy more than to make us happy? The Sacred Search casts a vision for building a relationship around shared spiritual mission—and making marriage with eternity at its heart.

By using his unique blend of humor and tell-it-like-it-is honesty, he helps couples get along and have fun doing it.

“Very wise . . . Give this book to every single girlfriend [you] have.”—Marie Claire If you’re looking to get married and you’re not, there’s most likely a very good reason: you. Hey, you’re certainly not a bad person! You just haven’t yet become the woman you need to be in order to have the partnership you want. That’s where this book comes in. Based on her wildly popular Huffington Post article, Tracy McMillan’s Why You’re Not Married . . . Yet dishes out no-holds-barred practical wisdom for women hoping to head down the aisle. And this new edition features even more candid advice and sisterly insight. McMillan points out the behaviors that might be in your blind spot and shows you how to adjust them to get the relationship you deserve. Do any of these chapter headings sound familiar? • You’re a Bitch: How defensiveness can hide behind a tough exterior, and why being nice is never a sign of weakness. • You’re a Liar: How to stop lying to men—and get honest with yourself—about the kind of relationship you really want. • You’re Selfish: The big secret about marriage: It’s about giving something, not getting it. A funny, insightful guide, Why You’re Not Married . . . Yet will change your life and the way you think about relationships, and it may very well lead you down the aisle. “Equal parts BFF, boot-camp instructor, and relationship guru, Tracy McMillan will change the way you think about yourself and your relationships. This book is for every woman out there who wants to have a great marriage.”—Ricki Lake

In his fifth book on relationships, National Bestselling Author and relationship expert, Armani Valentino doesn't leave one stone unturned. After more than 5 years of research and over 100,000 conversations with men & women, he has come up with the real reasons and not excuses to WHY the person you want to marry you won't do so. This Is Why I Won't Marry You walks you through page-by-page and line-by-line into the minds of males and females from all walks of life. The book is pragmatic and practical. It doesn't matter where you are in your relationship, you will be able to bridge the gap on whether or not to move forward to the alter, be still and keep dating, or leave the relationship. Most of all, you'll be able to see yourself for who you really are and where you are in your relationship. This book deals with the missing pieces of communication and understanding in relationships like never before. And... ~How to tell if you're dating "THE ONE." ~Why Men & Women Cheat ~What Men Really Want ~What Women Really Need ~10 Women ALL Men Should Run From ~5 Men You Should Never Marry And SO MUCH MORE!!! "The book is an easy and inspiring read. Both spiritual and secular readers will enjoy the real life stories and be able to relate. In his best written work to date, Armani Valentino definitely has a #1 bestseller with this one." ~SoSoActive.com

Abandoned because his mother's status was low, because his daughter was as cheap as grass...Sold because he was poor and couldn't keep up with his food...She was harmed only because of her beautiful appearance, and only because of her stubborn nature ...Marriage was a mother's request. A lover's betrayal. A foe's coercion. In order to survive, in order to be above others, she had chosen this arduous path ....Moreover, he was forced to marry her just to increase his bargaining power. Just for the sake of the lofty throne, he only had a spear and shield relationship with her. His heart had long ago belonged to her, so he could only make her suffer from the cold and bullying ...

Many women have often found themselves contemplating the question, "Why won't he marry me?" After being in a relationship with a significant other for years, and finding themselves in the same position they were when they first started dating has forced many women to seek answers to the questions, why won't he marry me? Is there something that I'm doing wrong? Is there something wrong with me? In this book, famed relationship counselor, Jeffrey Barlatier discusses the seven simple reasons men are not willing to marry their significant other.