The Ideal Muslim Husband

THE IDEAL MUSLIM HUSBANDB. Aisha LemuA British Scholar & Writer

The true Islamic personality as defined by the Qur'an and Sunnah presents a comprehensive overview of the way in which the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and his Companions lived. This picture of the practical aspects of a truly Islamic lifestyle serves as a timely reminder for all of us. At a time when unIslamic and antiIslamic influences are spreading, via modem technology, to the heartlands of Islam and even to the remotest regions, a Muslim needs to hold firm to the distinct character of our faith, as prescribed by Allah and revealed through His Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). Dr. Muhammad 'Ali alHashimi presents a wellthought out guide to the Islamic lifestyle. He starts with the Muslim's relationship with his Lord, which is the most important aspect of his life, and provides the foundation for all his other relationships. From there, he outlines how the Muslim should relate to every person in his life, starting with himself and his family, and moving on, by stages, to encompass every member of the community or society. Each point is supported by extensive quotations from the Qur'an and the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him).

A step-by-step guide on how to enter marriage, find and choose the "right person", and the key traditions of a successful marriage. What You Will Learn: The purpose of marriage. The components of a successful Islamic marriage. Qualities of a righteous man or woman What to look for in a potential spouse. The essence of love in Islam. How and where to find an ideal Muslim spouse. The Islamic tradition for conducting the marriage proposal. The marriage contract and how to conduct the nikah Description "And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed, in that are signs for a people who give thought." - Surah Ar-Rum 30:21 The 'Ideal Muslim Spouse' is a comprehensive and practical Islamic guide on how to approach Love & Marriage. It provides an invaluable resource for anyone seeking marriage, whether newly or re-marrying, as well as for parents involved in the marriage process. This guide combines the sublime knowledge of Islamic teachings with scientific research and real life experiences. It explores, the essential purpose of marriage in Islam, the characteristics to look for in a potential spouse, how and where to look for a compatible spouse, how to handle a suitable proposal, Islamic best practices for conducting marriages, cost effectively, along with handling cultural and religious issues pertaining to the nikah. With thought-provoking questions to help spouses or potential spouses understand themselves, recognize true compatibility in a partner, avoid common pitfalls within Muslim marriages, and build a strong and loving relationship. This book contains useful information that can be used throughout a marriage to maintain a healthy relationship that is built upon our Islamic bond of faith - a quality that is necessary to achieve the ultimate purpose of marriage. Who this Book is for: You want to understand Islamic marriage rules You want to understands the components of a successful Muslim marriage You want to understand what to Look for in a potential husband or wife. You want to learn how and where to find an Ideal Muslim Spouse. You want to learn the Islamic traditions for conducting the marriage proposal. You want to understand the Islamic traditions of the marriage contract and how to conduct the nikah.

Originally published: London: Quilliam Press, 1995.

Fulfilment of sexual desire and needs are key in sustaining a harmonious marital relationship. However, in today’s society, sexual boundaries are being pushed further and further, and often, sexual deviance is openly practised. In such circumstances, there is a need to identify which sexual activities are permissible in Shari’ah. Islamic Guide to Sexual Relations is a serious endeavour to tackle these sensitive matters in a clear and concise manner. While being respectful and dignified in the language he employs, the author does not shy away from discussing sensitive issues. He records, in thorough detail, the guidance Islam provides regarding sexual encounters with one’s spouse. The book covers a wide range of issues, and thus, answers many frequently asked questions on the topic of sexual relations. It concludes with a short chapter addressing Islamic etiquettes and practises pertaining to newlyweds on their first night.

In Kinship, Islam, and the Politics of Marriage in Jordan, Geoffrey Hughes sets out to trace the "marriage crisis" in Jordan and the Middle East. Rapid institutional, technological, and intellectual shifts in Jordan have challenged the traditional notions of marriage and the role of powerful patrilineal kin groups in society by promoting an alternative ideal of romantic love between husband and wife. Drawing on many years of fieldwork in rural Jordan, Kinship, Islam, and the Politics of Marriage in Jordan provides a firsthand look at how expectations around marriage are changing for young people in the Middle East even as they are still expected to raise money for housing, bridewealth, and a wedding. Kinship, Islam, and the Politics of Marriage in Jordan offers an intriguing look at the contrasts between the traditional values and social practices of rural Jordanians around marriage and the challenges and expectations of young people as their families negotiate the concept of kinship as part of the future of politics, family dynamics, and religious devotion

The new single woman's Bible that shows how to distinguish Mr. Right from Mr. Right Now Father Pat Connor knows marriages. Having presided over more than two hundred weddings and conducted pre-marriage and marriage counseling for more than forty years, he's something of an expert. And now he is sharing his wealth of experience with women everywhere on the subject of Whom Not to Marry. Father Pat's philosophy is simple: A love affair may lead to marriage, but love itself cannot make a marriage work. That's why it's important to weed out the bad seed's before you fall in love. Sounds easy enough, but in the early stages of romance, when infatuation trumps judgment, it can be difficult to see the flaws in your mate and to think rationally about your future. That's where this book comes in. A heavenly how-not-to, Whom Not to Marry offers timely and time-honored advice such as: Never marry a man who has no friends, for he won't be capable of the intimacy that marriage demands.Never marry a man who isn't responsible with cash. Most marriages that flounder do so because of money, a case of 'til debt do us part.Never marry a man who lets you walk all over him. It's good to have a doormat in the house, but not if it's your husband. Life may seem random, but there are many things you can do to make sure your life partner is the right one. It all starts with being honest with yourself. Use your good judgment, Father Pat counsels. Know what you want. Know who is worth loving and who is worth marrying. Once you can do that, you'll stand a much better chance of living happily ever after.