Intentional Dating

Have you found yourself pouring time and energy into relationships that aren't good for you? Do you desire a life-giving romantic relationship, but find yourself choosing people who are not a good bet for healthy love? Do you wonder why you choose such people? Are you curious about what to look for in a person with whom you can discover love for a lifetime? In Intentional Dating, you will find answers to these questions (and much more). Intentional Dating provides an easy-to-read guide to: - Understanding the most common reasons why people fail to pick wisely in their romantic love choices - Recognizing those behavior patterns in a potential partner who will not be good for you - Discovering how you can avoid becoming a victim of unhealthy relationship choices - Identifying those qualities that are essential for an ongoing life-giving love - Realizing the fifteen keys to finding and keeping the love you desire The head and the heart are meant to work together in love--Intentional Dating will help you accomplish just that.

Have you found yourself pouring time and energy into relationships that aren't good for you? Do you desire a life-giving romantic relationship, but find yourself choosing people who are not a good bet for healthy love? Do you wonder why you choose such people? Are you curious about what to look for in a person with whom you can discover love for a lifetime? In Intentional Dating, you will find answers to these questions (and much more). Intentional Dating provides an easy-to-read guide to: Understanding the most common reasons why people fail to pick wisely in their romantic love choices Recognizing those behavior patterns in a potential partner who will not be good for you Discovering how you can avoid becoming a victim of unhealthy relationship choices Identifying those qualities that are essential for an ongoing life-giving love Realizing the fifteen keys to finding and keeping the love you desire The head and the heart are meant to work together in love--Intentional Dating will help you accomplish just that.

Sophie Venable, MA is a relationship and dating coach, working with single women and couples for over 15 years. Intentional Dating is based on her work with single women, helping them as a coach and mentor to look at their dating perspective, learn how to communicate with men, and get intentional about how they truly want to feel in relationship. These proven steps will change the course of your life and improve the quality of all of your relationships.

A “must-read” (The Washington Post) funny and practical guide to help you find, build, and keep the relationship of your dreams. Have you ever looked around and wondered, “Why has everyone found love except me?” You’re not the only one. Great relationships don’t just appear in our lives—they’re the culmination of a series of decisions, including whom to date, how to end it with the wrong person, and when to commit to the right one. But our brains often get in the way. We make poor decisions, which thwart us on our quest to find lasting love. Drawing from years of research, behavioral scientist turned dating coach Logan Ury reveals the hidden forces that cause those mistakes. But awareness on its own doesn’t lead to results. You have to actually change your behavior. Ury shows you how. This “simple-to-use guide” (Lori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone) focuses on a different decision in each chapter, incorporating insights from behavioral science, original research, and real-life stories. You’ll learn: -What’s holding you back in dating (and how to break the pattern) -What really matters in a long-term partner (and what really doesn’t) -How to overcome the perils of online dating (and make the apps work for you) -How to meet more people in real life (while doing activities you love) -How to make dates fun again (so they stop feeling like job interviews) -Why “the spark” is a myth (but you’ll find love anyway) This “data-driven” (Time), step-by-step guide to relationships, complete with hands-on exercises, is designed to transform your life. How to Not Die Alone will help you find, build, and keep the relationship of your dreams.

But because the majority of marriages in this country consist of unions in which wives are more heavily invested in marital success than are their husbands, much of this sensible effort by reasonable people needs to be consistently initiated and maintained by men. In fact, men often hold the keys to bringing about the type of loving marriage they had hoped for when they first said 'I do.' In How To Love Your Wife, Dr. Buri makes these keys clear, understandable, and accessible.

Life Is Never Mainly About Love and Marriage. So Learn to Live and Date for More. Many of you grew up assuming that marriage would meet all of your needs and unlock God's purposes for you. But God has far more planned for you than your future marriage. Not Yet Married is not about waiting quietly in the corner of the world for God to bring you "the one," but about inspiring you to live and date for more now. If you follow Jesus, the search for a spouse is no longer a pursuit of the perfect person, but a pursuit of more of God. He will likely write a love story for you different than the one you would write for yourself, but that's because he loves you and knows how to write a better story. This book was written to help you find real hope, happiness, and purpose in your not-yet-married life.

Intentional Relationships: A Guide to Dating with Purpose “Your choice of a life partner will either make you or break you.” Let’s face it. Dating is not what it used to be. In a morally confused and fast-paced generation, today’s challenges and pressures can make a dating relationship seem impossible, as it has since become an escape for those afraid of commitment. I explore what it means to transition from unhealthy patterns of dating to seeking intentional relationships and dating with purpose. After going through several life-changing breakups, Tolu made a decision to do things differently. She stopped entertaining unhealthy relationships and started seeking intentional relationships. Having met and married the love of her life, she encourages readers to enjoy their seasons, seek intentional relationships, date with purpose and most importantly, prepare for God’s best and trust Him in the process! This book explores the following: —Making the most of your single life (the gift of singleness) —Defining your relationship —Recognizing deal breakers and putting an end to defective relationships —Recognizing when your relationship stops becoming intentional and becomes a situationship —Knowing the practical ways to date with purpose —Knowing how to avoid relationship pitfalls —Knowing how to date in a way that lays a solid foundation for a purposeful marriage. Are you tired of dating for fun? Are you frustrated at your many attempts to secure the bag? This is for you. Read this book and learn how to build, keep, and grow intentional dating relationships that lead to a fruitful one. It is time for you to get the meaningful and intentional relationship you deserve.

Intentional Relationships for Singles is a 12-week Bible study designed to help individuals get healthier through personal growth in all their relationships including God, family, friends, work, and church with the goal of preparing for marriage. TOPICS DISCUSSED - Your Identity in Christ - Gender Roles - Understanding the Opposite Sex - Blind Spots - Boundaries - Conflict Resolution - Forgiveness - Reconciliation - Friendships - Intentional Friendship(TM) - Intentional Dating - Engagement - Plus self/group reflection questions, Online Leaders Resources and Videos. "Kris and Dan have walked the ups and downs of singleness, friendship and dating - and lived to tell about it. Lucky for us, we get to learn from their victories and mistakes. Their immensely practical book is full of advice, strategies and personal, real-world examples that will empower you to pursue personal and relational health - and most importantly, to trust Godin the process." - Lisa Anderson, Director of Boundless.org/Focus on the Family and author of The Dating Manifesto "Every 'us' requires intentionality. Lots of purposeful intentionality before and during dating, and then again before and after the wedding. This guide will help you do just that." - Ron Deal, President of SmartStepfamilies.com and bestselling author of Dating and the Single Parent and Building Love Together in Blended Families (with Dr. Gary Chapman); smartstepfamilies.com "In a world where relationships are lost and have become a dying art too often replaced by cell phones and social media, Kris Swiatocho and Dan Houk have hit a home run. Intention takes time, perseverance, and prayer. Relationships don't flourish without intention. Kudos on bringing practical tips and life application to the millions of singles who desire true and authentic relationships." - Jennifer Maggio, Chief Executive Officer, The Life of a Single Mom Ministries; thelifeofasinglemom.com "Wow! What a powerful book of information and strategy for building intentional, authentic relationships! This book is so fresh, reads well, and is one of the sharpest, laser-focused tools I have ever read to help single adults build God-honoring relationships that last. Without hesitation, I recommend this book to single adults and to those leaders who work closely with single adults. Dan and Kris do a masterful job in sharing their life experiences that only brings greater authority to the content of this book. You gotta get it! You won't be disappointed." - Joseph Northcut, Director of Church Resources, ChurchInitiative.org (creator of DivorceCare.org and GriefShare.org) For more information, to order in bulk to save or to bring Kris and Dan to your city, go to www.IntentionalRelationshipSolutions.org

An Intensely Practical Guide for Husbands Looking to Strengthen, Save, or Spice up Their Marriage Most men don't know how to date their wives. They did it before, but they've forgotten how, or they're trying but it just doesn't seem to be working. Justin Buzzard helps men re-learn this all-important skill from a position of security in the gospel of grace. As a father of three boys and husband, Justin offers guys a helping hand, good news, and wise counsel, along with: 100 practical ideas for how to date your wife Action steps at the end of each chapter Personal stories and real-life examples All types of marriages—good ones, mediocre ones, and bad ones—will experience a jumpstart as a result of hearing, believing, and living the message of Date Your Wife.

It is possible to find true love through dating. In True Love Dates, Debra Fileta encourages singles not to "kiss dating goodbye" but instead to experience a season of dating as a way to find real love. Through powerful, real-life stories and Fileta's personal journey, this book offers profound insights from the expertise of a professional counselor. Christians are looking for answers to finding true love. They are disillusioned with the church that has provided little practical application in the area of love and relationships. They're bombarded by Christian books that shun dating, idolize courting, fixate on spirituality, and in the end, offer little real relationship help. True Love Dates provides honest help for dating by providing a guide into vital relationship essentials. Debra is a professional Christian counselor who reaches millions with her popular blog, Truelovedates.com, and her book offers sound advice grounded in Christian spirituality. She delivers insight, direction, and counsel when it comes to entering the world of dating and learning to do it right the first time around. Drawing on the stories and struggles of hundreds of young men and women who have pursued the search for true love, Fileta helps readers bypass unnecessary pain while focusing on the things that really matter in the world of dating.