Helping Those Who Hurt

Whether you’re a layperson or a professional counselor, Helping Those Who Hurt will help you care for others encountering life crises such as: Illness, hospitalization, and death A troubled marriage Addiction Suicide

With more than 450,000 copies in print, When Helping Hurts is a paradigm-forming contemporary classic on the subject of poverty alleviation. Poverty is much more than simply a lack of material resources, and it takes much more than donations and handouts to solve it. When Helping Hurts shows how some alleviation efforts, failing to consider the complexities of poverty, have actually (and unintentionally) done more harm than good. But it looks ahead. It encourages us to see the dignity in everyone, to empower the materially poor, and to know that we are all uniquely needy—and that God in the gospel is reconciling all things to himself. Focusing on both North American and Majority World contexts, When Helping Hurts provides proven strategies for effective poverty alleviation, catalyzing the idea that sustainable change comes not from the outside in, but from the inside out.

Proven, compassionate ways to comfort the wounded with practical tips on how to say the right things to friends and loved ones.

Who knows the heartache of having a home split apart? What about someone to understand the loss of a child . . . or the misery of a teenager on drugs . . . or a failure in school . . . or the loss of a business? God knows you are hurting and wants to be your Comforter.

This book is to help men, women, boys and girls of different races, ethnicities, religions, ages and backgrounds overcome hurt they have experienced in their lives. Hurt can be experienced in several different forms and can cause individuals to become distant, depressed and out of touch with their feelings. Oftentimes in life many people will experience some form of hurt and may not know how to get through it on their own. I pray this book will be a devotional, motivational and inspirational guide to help others heal from their past, current and future distress. This book will teach individuals how to forgive, love, trust, hope again and experience a divine healing in life so one can feel complete again. Healing can occur regardless of ones faith, religion or belief.

Change your thinking, change your life-that's the mantra of The Hurt/Help Book: The Ultimate Guide on How to Recognize, Eliminate, and Prevent Troubled Behavior. Written by someone who's been there, done that, and bought the T-shirt, this workbook examines fourteen characters that you likely have encountered. Do you know a manipulator? A white-collar criminal? A drug addict? Chances are you do. Chances are you may see any one of these fourteen characters in your mirror every day. While it's easy to focus on the reprehensible nature of corrupt behavior, we often ignore the hurt behind it. This book gets at that and more. Using what T. Dawson calls the "REP method," it features easy yet thought-provoking, dig-deep exercises to help you identify the cause of problematic behavior, understand the ramifications of that behavior, stop and overcome such behavior permanently, and begin to make life-affirming choices to become your best self. If your poor choices have imprisoned you emotionally, mentally, or literally-and you're ready to break free from that negative cycle-you'll find the support you need in The Hurt/Help Book from someone who understands where you are and believes in your potential.

If you’ve been part of a church, you have probably suffered a “church hurt”—or know someone who has. Maybe the pastor had an affair or the congregation fought over money or the leaders were disguising gossip as “prayer.” Stephen Mansfield knows how it feels. Though he is now a New York Times bestselling author, he was a pastor for more than 20 years, and he loved it—until he learned how much a church can hurt. Yet he also learned how to dig out of that hurt, break through the bitterness and anger, stop making excuses, and get back to where he ought to be with God and his people. If you’re ready to choose the tough path to healing, Mansfield will walk you through it with brotherly love, showing you how you can be better than ever on the other side of this mess—if you’re willing to start Healing Your Church Hurt. Previously published as ReChurch.

A companion to How to Pray & Communicate with God, the Leader's Guide offers suggestions for using biblical guides and enhancing the study. It also contains answers to study questions.