Dare To Forgive

Forgiveness is not turning the other cheek, it is not running away and it does not mean that you condone what someone has done, nor does it invite him or her to do it again. Forgiveness doesn't mean that you don't want an offender to be punished, it doesn't mean that you'll forget the offense, or that by forgiving you tacitly invite bad things to happen again. And forgiving doesn't mean you won't defend yourself or that you must love (or stop disliking) the person you are forgiving.” In other words, forgiveness is not a sign of weakness but of strength. It's also healthy, brave, contagious, and sets you free. In this book, Dr. Hallowell not only explains why forgiveness is one of the best things you can do to heal your body and mind; he also offers a practical, four part plan for achieving it. True stories illustrate the power of forgiveness in real lives, from a wife who forgives the hurtful words of her husband to a mother who forgives the man who kidnapped and murdered her daughter. Key Features Dr. Hallowell is a bestselling author with a strong track record. In this book, he returns to his core audience and subject matter. An exceptional platform for self-promotion, Dr. Hallowell speaks to 10,000 people each year at more than 70 conferences. His new view of forgiveness as a strength, and his unique 4-step plan for conquering feelings of anger and resentment, will appeal to a country trying to sort out feelings of vengeance and heartbreak.

“If you are struggling with issues of betrayal—or the challenge of whether and how to forgive—here is the most helpful and surprising book you will ever find on the subject.”—Harriet Lerner, Ph.D., author of The Dance of Anger Everyone is struggling to forgive someone: an unfaithful partner, an alcoholic parent, an ungrateful child, a terrorist. This award-winning book provides a radical way for hurt parties to heal themselves—without forgiving, as well as a way for offenders to earn genuine forgiveness. Until now, we’ve been taught that forgiveness is good for us and that good people forgive. Dr. Janis Abrahms Spring, a gifted clinical psychologist and award-winning author of After the Affair, proposes a radical, life-affirming alternative that lets us overcome the corrosive effects of hate and get on with our lives—without forgiving. She also offers a powerful and unconventional model for earning genuine forgiveness—one that asks as much of the offender as it does of the hurt party. Beautifully written and filled with insight, practical advice, and poignant case studies, this bold and healing book offers step-by-step, concrete instructions that help us make peace with others and ourselves, while answering such crucial questions as these: How do I forgive someone who is unremorseful or dead? When is forgiveness cheap? Can I heal myself – without forgiving? How can the offender earn forgiveness? What makes for a good apology? How do we forgive ourselves for hurting another human being?

In this deeply personal and encouraging book, best-selling author and beloved pastor Fr. Joe Kempf takes an honest look at the complexities of forgiveness. With his signature heart and humor, Fr. Joe encourages us not to be too glib about forgiveness, even as he gently reminds us that, ultimately, "Forgiveness is not optional for those who want a joy-filled, meaningful life," Filled with stories of real-life situations of hurt and betrayal, Fr. Joe asks the difficult questions about what it takes to truly forgive someone, when to do so, and how to give ourselves the space to heal in the arms of our loving God. When the heartaches come, these reflections, prayers, and stories will help guide us toward the life-changing power of following Jesus beyond the cross to forgiveness and new life. Book jacket.

DO YOU FIND IT HARD TO TRULY FORGIVE OTHERS? Forgiveness is something that most of us struggle with throughout our lifetime, and yet, if not dealt with, it's an issue that will lead to bitterness, depression and deep-seated anger, resulting in unhappy and unfruitful lives. There's an easy kind of forgiveness when someone cuts you off in traffic, or says something unkind, but can you fathom the deeper kind of grace required for abuse at the hands of the parent who is supposed to love and protect you? How do you find the will to forgive physical, mental and verbal abuse at the hands of Christian brothers in a prominent ministry? How do you overcome the emotional scars of a childhood lived in the midst of a bloody and horrific war-zone? In "The Courage to Forgive," you will be inspired by one woman's personal journey through one of the most difficult challenges that humans face-forgiveness. From suffering through the horrors of war in Uganda, through the abuses at the hands of her mother-to a powerful moment of grace and forgiveness that changes her mother's life and her own destiny forever. Follow this incredible woman's story of unending perseverance and determination in the face of unspeakable trials. Her resilience and courage will inspire you, while her faith, and ultimately, her willingness to forgive, will change the way you think about your own life and faith. Joyce L. Villeneuve is a senior marketing and communications consultant and successful entrepreneur in the advertising, photography and public relations fields. She and her husband, Martin, live in Colorado, with their three children and faithful dachshund.

Gunnar, the Healer of the Dark Demons, wants to escape from his sadist father, the King of the Dark Demons, and return to the Golden Demons, but his father brands him with a dragon tattoo designed to kill Golden Demons. The choice to stay away from his friends is taken from his hands when they launch a rescue operation to save him, only to have one of their own injured by the dragon on his chest while another is captured by his father. Can Gunnar trust his sister, their father's lapdog, and the dragon on his chest to help save his friends and keep him free?

The Forgive Process reveals a simple process to forgive the hurts and pains that hold people back. Life is full-contact. There are hurts and joys at every turn. But those hurts, when they are not released, hold people captive. The way through a hurt is forgiveness. Yet many people do not understand forgiveness. The misunderstandings and myths make it even more difficult—unless you have a simple process to work through. With Lee Baucom’s principles, forgiving is a simple, six-step process. Anyone can forgive, move forward, and find peace and healing.

Do you feel stuck in your life? Sometimes the wounds of the past and the hurt we are carrying are the reasons we are not able to move forward in life. We all have been hurt at some point in our lives, but we have a choice how long we carry those feeling with us. In this four week devotional, Dare to Forgive, we will work on releasing those wounds, learning to forgive those who have hurt us and ourselves. With 28 scriptures and motivational thoughts, you can start to find healing and hope for a new day. Each day, you will have an opportunity to reflect and write your thoughts as you process all the information. You are a strong, talented and fabulous human being. It is my wish that you see yourself in the same way. You were made to accomplish incredible things.