Can We Cure And Forgive Adultery

It's time we addressed the epidemic of adultery as a disease! Learn how to stay, not stray!

"One of the foremost relationship experts at work today offers creative insight on building trust and avoiding betrayal, helping readers to decode the mysteries of healthy love and relationships"--

In this groundbreaking new edition Dr.Weil reveals how to overcome the pain of betrayal and learn to heal the rift that adultery causes in a relationship. Statistically, only 35 percent of unions survive an affair. By teaching you and your partner the gift of forgiveness, Dr. Weil's proven methods will increase the odds to a happy 98 percent, with a healthier, more intimate relationship. This book provides practical exercises to cushion the pain, and her innovative therapy for children you can do at home! Dr. Weil teaches you how balancing brain chemicals can help to finally cure the epidemic of adultery and get you to "feel" so you can fall back in love with your partner! Learn how to create the same chemicals we make when we are truly happy or in love. Find out how to have an affair with your own partner!

After the Affair teaches partners how to heal themselves and grow from the shattering crisis of an infidelity. Drawing on thirty-five years as a clinical psychologist, Dr. Spring offers a series of original and proven strategies that address such questions as: Why did it happen? Once love and trust are gone, can we ever get them back? Can I—should I—recommit when I feel so ambivalent? How do we become sexually intimate again? Is forgiveness possible? What constitutes an affair in cyberspace?

From an acclaimed couples therapist, the first book ever to address the financial power struggles in relationships Money, not sexual adultery, is the #1 problem in relationships. According to Dr. Bonnie, one of the nation's leading couples therapists, "nearly one-third of adults in committed relationships admit to lying to their partner about spending habits." Secret credit cards, binge shopping, revenge spending, and POPs (pissed off purchases) are just a few examples of how financial infidelity undermines trust and harms a relationship. With clarity and compassion, Dr. Bonnie—who has a near one hundred percent success rate in counseling couples—helps readers recognize their hidden financial indiscretions, reconnect with their partners, and recover the trust and intimacy in their relationships.

“If you are struggling with issues of betrayal—or the challenge of whether and how to forgive—here is the most helpful and surprising book you will ever find on the subject.”—Harriet Lerner, Ph.D., author of The Dance of Anger Everyone is struggling to forgive someone: an unfaithful partner, an alcoholic parent, an ungrateful child, a terrorist. This award-winning book provides a radical way for hurt parties to heal themselves—without forgiving, as well as a way for offenders to earn genuine forgiveness. Until now, we’ve been taught that forgiveness is good for us and that good people forgive. Dr. Janis Abrahms Spring, a gifted clinical psychologist and award-winning author of After the Affair, proposes a radical, life-affirming alternative that lets us overcome the corrosive effects of hate and get on with our lives—without forgiving. She also offers a powerful and unconventional model for earning genuine forgiveness—one that asks as much of the offender as it does of the hurt party. Beautifully written and filled with insight, practical advice, and poignant case studies, this bold and healing book offers step-by-step, concrete instructions that help us make peace with others and ourselves, while answering such crucial questions as these: How do I forgive someone who is unremorseful or dead? When is forgiveness cheap? Can I heal myself – without forgiving? How can the offender earn forgiveness? What makes for a good apology? How do we forgive ourselves for hurting another human being?

A step-by-step approach to making your marriage loving again.

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The heart that forgives embraces all things and overflows with unconditional love. Childhood sweethearts Mia and Jean-Paul have been married for twenty-seven years when Jean-Paul admits to Mia that he has been having an affair with another woman. While Mia resolves to do whatever it takes to save her marriage, Jean-Paul decides to end his affair. But the unexpected and lasting effects of his betrayal threaten to permanently corrupt their once-solid union. In "The Heart to Forgive," a self-help book written as a fictionalized memoir, author Mimi Gabriel describes her real-life experience with infidelity. Her hope is to help others cope and recover from similar situations. With the perspective of Mimi's husband, Les Gabriel, you will come to understand why a partner might stray and, most importantly, how a couple can restore their relationship through honesty and forgiveness. "The Heart to Forgive" is captivating, raw, and inspiring. The realities of infidelity are painful and confusing. What if you could step into the hearts and minds of each person involved? "The Heart to Forgive" allows us to witness a personal journey of healing, forgiveness and love in he face of every couple's nightmare. A "must read" for anyone struggling to reclaim happiness after infidelity. This story is a shining example of what's possible. -Mary Allen, CPCC, MCC, Author of "The Power of Inner Choice"